As a marriage therapist and couples counselor since 1993, I will share with you that having what is termed a “mismatched libido” AKA a different sex drive from one’s mate, is not a relationship destroyer. Some think it is, though a so-called mismatched libido is quite normal. And, you may be happy to know that there are various reasons for it and ways to help couples who experience this.
If you find this topic of interest, check out my latest interview in Yahoo where I shared my insights for an article entitled: When Couples Have Mismatched Libidos.